Factors of Success

    
          Success can mean many different things to different people. I believe that success can be different depending on the individual. Everyone is born with their own personal passion and depending on what yours is can determine how you view success. My personal view of success is being able to be content with how you are living your life. When I say being content I do not mean to be satisfied so that you do not strive for more. I am only saying that you can accept what you have because you know you have worked for it and followed your dreams. Many people become unsatisfied with their lives because they are stuck doing something they do not have a passion for. With all of the distractions that are in our society today it is easy to lose sight of what your true passion is. The pressure of society and the influence of the people around you can force you to think that your passion is flawed or unrealistic. In reality that is only an illusion that can distance you from doing what you will be happy doing. Material things play a big part in doing this as well. Many times people will shy away from their passion if it is not known for making a solid source of income. This causes individuals to be discouraged in chasing their personal dreams and having a tarnished image of their passion. I believe it is wrong to discourage anyone from chasing their personal dream no matter how absurd or unobtainable it may sound. Sometimes knowing you attempted to follow your dream can give you a feeling of satisfaction in itself. In Chris's case he died following his dream and living his passion. Even though he did not make it out  of Alaska alive he was still able to die doing what he wanted to do most. Many people tried to discourage Chris from doing what he did and many people looked down upon him for doing it. Chris did not listen to these people because he knew they were only distractions trying to prevent him from achieving his personal success. I do not understand how someone could tell another person what they should enjoy doing and spend their time doing. Everyone has their own view of success and having fun so when giving a person advice I feel it is best to advise someone on how to achieve their own goals not tell them what their goals should be. Often times it can be the journey alone in trying to achieve your goals that you enjoy and receive satisfaction from.
          Once a person has realized what their personal view of success is the next step is finding affective ways to achieve this success. One of the most vital factors in achieving success has to do with focus. By staying focused you are constantly reminding yourself of your priorities. Distractions can often cause a person to forget what is most important to them and what comes first. It is also important to be motivated to do what you want but I do not think this is as important as being focused. The reason I say this is because even when doing what I love to do like play football there are still days where I do not feel motivated to put in the work to become better. Though I do not always feel like putting in the work I still do when I remind myself of my priorities and the importance of working hard. Being focused means you do not let distractions deter you from accomplishing your goals. Many times growing up I have been told "nothing worth having comes easy". Judging by my personal experiences in life I would say that this quote holds truth. Very few things I have ever enjoyed or just been satisfied with came without some form of payment. The things that did come easy did not satisfy me as much as things I know I worked for. Throughout my years of playing football I have learned to love every part about the game. I now do not only enjoy the thrill of playing in the games and winning. I can also find satisfaction within the grueling offseason workouts and the tragic loses. Knowing that these situations and moments will contribute to progress in my passion gives me the satisfaction I need to enjoy the journey just as much as the destination. In the end, it is my focus that helps remind me of these things and keeps me motivated enough to pursue success the best way I know how.
          Family is the major factor in helping me succeed within the community. Within our society there are many distractions that can cause you to lose focus on achieving success. If you are fortunate enough to have a loving and caring family in your corner it is easier to stay focused on your personal goals. Even if you do not have an immediate family available it is important to keep the ones who have been there for you close by for support. Very few people are willing to support another without receiving benefit. The people who are willing to do this are important to keep around if you plan on achieving your success. Success is not something that is easily obtained so achieving it completely on your on is close to impossible. This is especially true for a young adult like myself. Being that I am very young it is easier for me to get distracted because it is not hard for me to come across them. Friends and the influence of society present distractions to young teens and adults on a daily basis. If you do not have family and mentors around you to influence you in the right direction it can be tough to ignore these everyday distractions.


What prevents me from achieving success...to be cont...